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Sep 11, 20244 min read
Building Confidence: A Journey, Not a Destination
When we think of building confidence, it often seems like a distant destination—something we hope to reach one day.


Sep 8, 20245 min read
My 16th letter: Confidence vs Competence
In NLP, there are four stages of learning, and this is where we transition from feeling competent to genuinely confident in our tasks.


Sep 4, 20243 min read
Rewriting Our Stories: The Power of Personal Narratives
We all carry stories within us. These stories shape our understanding of the world, define our identities, and influence how we interact.


Aug 31, 20245 min read
My 15th letter: Our internal narrative - what story do you have running on repeat?
Think of our internal narratives as mini-movie scenes constantly running in the background—shaping and creating our realities.


Aug 28, 20243 min read
The Language I Use: How the Words We Choose Shape Our Self-Perception
Language isn't just about the words we say; it's about the beliefs they carry. Often, these beliefs are rooted in outdated narratives.


Aug 26, 20244 min read
My 14th letter: The language you wear - let's talk about your "word wardrobe."
I like to describe our internal and external language as a personal "word wardrobe".


Aug 19, 20245 min read
My 13th letter: Is my need for control creating my worthiness?
Recently, the word control has come up a few times—whether it's a need for control in our plans for the caravan, the future, or daily chores


Aug 13, 20245 min read
My 12th letter: What is the Secret to a Great Marriage?
We had a truly epic weekend. This experience has made me reflect deeply on couples' dynamics and the secret to a great marriage.


Aug 5, 20245 min read
My 11th letter: Is it too late to feel a connection?
When do I feel connected? Who do I feel connected to? And what has to happen for me to feel it? And, can we actually 'feel' a connection?

Jul 28, 20244 min read
My 10th letter: Let’s aim for… progress, not perfection, shall we?
What is it about perfection? Why does it haunt us all? And more importantly, what can we do to stop the "perfection" propeller from spinning


Jul 14, 20244 min read
My 8th letter: Am I lucky, or am I intentionally building a fulfilling life?
I have been reminded this week just how incredible my fulfilling life is. I will be honest, I was going to use the word "lucky".


Jul 7, 20244 min read
My 7th letter: Who Do I Want to Be?
I knew I would write about the BE part of NLP's BE DO HAVE model (who do I want to be?), and the day has finally arrived.


Jun 30, 20245 min read
My 6th letter: Imprisoned by my ‘To-Do’ List.
I could only be described as "a nervous list wreck." I was so worried about my to-do list, and the thought of not ticking everything off mad


Jun 16, 20245 min read
My 4th letter: The People Pleasing Fool
The internal chatter of a people-pleaser can go something like this: "What will they think? I want to keep the peace. Etc.


Jun 9, 20245 min read
My 3rd letter: Where did this fear of failure come from?
I found a large part of my thinking revolving around the fear of failure. Many conversations have come up about it, and it got me wondering.


Apr 13, 20243 min read
Empowering Women: Momentum, Self-Understanding, and Collective Wellbeing
In today’s ever-demanding world, understanding oneself has never been more crucial—especially for women who often navigate complex,...


Mar 5, 20242 min read
Reminder: It’s never too late to be what you might have been - the myth of unfulfilled potential.
Many of us wander through life with a nagging feeling of unfulfilled potential, like a smartphone running on low power mode.


Feb 26, 20243 min read
The Under-appreciated Value of Life Coaching in Personal Development
Despite the ICF's reports of the coaching industry's growth, the uptake of life coaching is surprisingly low.


Jan 4, 20243 min read
Clear Thoughts, Brighter Paths: Four Steps to Mental Clarity
Gaining mental clarity is less about quieting the mental noise. Here's a practical approach to finding clarity amidst the chaos.


Sep 7, 20233 min read
Decoding the Layers of Fear: Understanding its Three Levels
Fear. It's an emotion so potent that it can cripple even the strongest among us. However, what if we told you that understanding fear's...
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